There is no luck involved. What it is:

1. Planning
2. Money
3. Time
4. Working, before, during and after
5. Agonising listening to people’s opinions who have not experienced it

So, *why* do people say it is lucky, well maybe they need to look at their lives. People who have
been to the places you have, express empathy, shared experiences and joy to experience the same
time again.

The others are motivated by jealously, disillusionment, non-empathy. That is the most important
in friendship building. Empathy and time.