build up good will.
means things that go wrong dont matter as one has enough kudos respect
speaking a few words of a foreign language.
being nice and generous is a good thing
if you are nice at the beginning then you accumulate social credit, more missteps are tolerated. in other words we humans are sensitive to transients. beginning and ends overly affect our memories. less so the boring middle parts.
“there’s no lime” not nice with the barman so no lime 🍋🟩
in the workplace some people are nice so get extra work, tips, SF, TO contra HA, SR
swedes asking for stuff all the time with no “credit” Dennis … the world is emotional so people get upset 😠
how come you get the biggest piece of salmon 🍣 “because he’s nice to her”
swedes abroad forget to give something and are surprised when they get a push back.
german bottles in HR